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Feeling unloved with your baby’s father is frustrating. It is the last thing you want to experience as a mother. However, it would help if you handled the emotions that come with it with care. It can either make or break you even further.
This article outlines ways you can analyze your situation and make an informed choice about your life. So, to help you get started, access your relationship by asking yourself these questions.
Do you still have a spark?
For a relationship to flourish, you must have some chemistry between you. That’s why it’s essential to ask yourself, is your baby’s father attracted to you? What are his feelings towards you? You can pick cues about these questions on how he behaves around you or treats you. Better still, you can ask him about it.
Also, assess your feelings. Do you still love your baby’s father? Could it be you fell apart a long time ago, and the fear of being a single mother drives you? A thorough analysis of your feelings will help you unearth the underlying thought of why you think your baby’s father doesn’t love you.
As you evaluate your feelings, consider your level of agree-ability. Do you agree on a lot of things, or you have persistent arguments? Traits like a good listener, patience, and kindness can go a long way to sustain a…